5 Things We Wish We Knew When We Started Training: Advice from a Coach
If we could go back in time, there would be so many things we would tell my younger self: “you can wear that dress more than once because no one f*cking cares” or “keep those flares because they will make a comeback”. We’re showing our age now, but we’re trying to make a point.
There’s a lot of misinformation available online about how you should train, what you should do, how many sets and reps to do, what exercises are ‘optimal’ for you, what you should eat, when you should eat, what supplements you should take, blah blah. Social media has made SO MUCH information available, that it’s death by information overload so it’s hard to figure out what’s actually true and what’s a myth that fitfluencers made up to scare you into training with them.
We’re here to cut through the BS and give our younger self this advice:
1. Skipping a workout or two is not the end of the world.
It’s important to listen to your body - if you’re feeling tired and a little run down then your body needs to rest and recover. What’s the other option? You turn up to the gym and do a sub-par workout that makes you feel even worse. No thanks.
The magic happens in recovery. It’s where your muscles get time to repair and adapt to the training, basically where gains are made - not in the gym.
2. Swapping training days or times around to work with your schedule is okay.
Life doesn’t always go to plan: when life gives you lemons, make lemonade. If your schedule is hectic, it’s okay to switch training days around to fit into your life. It’s your life and you’re in control: the important thing is that you get it done. It doesn’t matter whether it’s in the morning or the afternoon, or a Tuesday or a Wednesday - make it work for you.
By accepting that it’s okay to change up your schedule, it’ll take a load off and you’ll feel less guilty about “missing” a workout.
3. Weights won’t make you bulky
If we had a dollar for every time someone said “weights will make women bulky”, we wouldn’t be here running a gym - we’d be living on the Coast of Italy, sipping limoncellos, eating pasta, pizza and gelato every day, and sailing on our yacht every weekend.
Women find it harder to build muscles than men because they’re naturally smaller and our hormones are different. For women, building and maintaining a great physique takes years of training and dedication.
If you want to “tone up”, you need to start lifting weights to build muscle mass. The more muscle mass you have, the more calories you’ll burn. Increasing the ratio of lean muscle mass to body fat will help you look more toned.
4. Less is more
Quality is more important than quantity - training 6-7 days a week without a break won’t help anyone. You’re going to be tired, moody, and burned out, you’ll probably end up hating your training and stop going altogether.
You can get the same results (or even better results) from training 3-4 days a week. It’s about getting the total weekly training volume in by training each muscle group at least 2-3 times a week, rather than a set amount of days. It’s also a lot more sustainable because life will give you lemons.
5. Train movements, not muscle groups
Back then, you would spend a lot of time doing a leg day, back day, arm day, core day - basically every [insert muscle group] day and a lot of time on the cardio machines too. All those wasted hours and days we’ll never get back…
It’s about training smarter, not harder. And if you want to be smarter, train all movements to train all muscle groups. Movements can target multiple muscle groups using just one exercise rather than isolating a muscle group.
What would you tell your younger self if you could go back in time and teach them a lesson?
